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Pushing Up Daisies
A syndicated collection of reflections from years inside funeral service.
From the column archive
These essays carry the lived moments of funeral service — the tender, difficult, human, sometimes unexpected experiences that reveal how sorrow, dignity, humor, love, and grace can stand side by side.
Syndicated column archive · published reflections from years in funeral service
Featured Reflection
The Weight of an Ordinary Tuesday
Not every day in funeral service arrives with drama. Some of the heaviest work happens on an ordinary Tuesday — when the phone rings, the family is stunned, and someone must speak calmly while the world has just broken open.
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Published reflections
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Funeral Service Realities
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The Weight of an Ordinary Tuesday
When the work is quiet on the surface but heavy underneath — the discipline of showing up steady when families cannot.
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Behind the Arrangement Room Door
The unseen labor of preparation — care offered in rooms most mourners never enter, and the dignity held there.
Families & Grief
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When the Family Table Goes Quiet
Grief rearranges a household long before the service ends — the silence that follows shared meals and unfinished conversations.
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The Question No One Knows How to Ask
Families often need permission to speak plainly — and someone willing to listen without flinching.
Children & Mourning
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Small Shoes at the Visitation
Children mourn with honesty that adults sometimes fear — and with a tenderness that can teach the room how to breathe again.
Humor & Humanity
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Laughter in the Funeral Home Lobby
Humor does not dishonor the dead. Sometimes it is the truest sign that love is still alive in the room.
Hard Lessons
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What the Job Teaches When No One Is Watching
Some lessons in funeral service are learned in error, exhaustion, or regret — and carried forward with humility.
Sacred Moments
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The Hand That Would Not Let Go
There are moments at the graveside when time seems to stop — and ordinary hands become vessels of farewell.
Compassion Fatigue
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The Caregiver Who Forgot to Rest
Those who carry others through loss must sometimes be reminded that their own sorrow and fatigue also deserve witness.
Love, Memory & Meaning
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What Remains After the Flowers Fade
Memorials pass. Flowers wilt. What endures is the story a family learns to tell — and the love that keeps finding language.
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The Name Spoken One More Time
To speak a name aloud is to insist that a life mattered — and that mourning is not the same as forgetting.
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